Practice12 min
My relationship triggers
A six-step chain for one specific moment.
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Choose one recent moment — small is better than significant while you are learning the pattern.
- Situation
- What I noticed
- Emotion
- Automatic reaction
- What I feared
- What I needed
Over time, many people find the last two lines repeat. That repetition is usually the more useful information.
You might explore these in your own words — there is no right answer, and stopping partway is completely fine.
